Yay! Today a package from New Look curve arrived with just a few goodies inside. I had ordered a big fluffy dressing gown as my current one is approx. 40,000 years old, a new nighty because I’m still wearing Christmas 2017 pjs, and a gorge black and white pinstripe jumpsuit because, well I just loved it online so ordered it straight away. What a way … Continue reading New Look Haul
This isn’t a post about New Years Resolutions or goal setting. I’m planning a seperate post specifically on that in the next day or two. But in this post I want to put down on paper (virtual paper of course) what general direction I want to take in the next twelve months. In January 2017 I began my IG account as nothing more than a … Continue reading 2018… what’s next?
I’ve been experiencing a little writers block lately. I don’t want to write shite anymore. It doesn’t feel good to publish blog posts that I don’t take any pride in. I don’t want to feel obliged to post something on certain days just to keep up with other bloggers. So I’ve decided not to continue churning out blog post after blog post for the sake … Continue reading Ten Things I’d Tell My Younger Self
I recently spoke on my Instagram stories about how a cousin of mine had fat shamed a girl on TV in front of me, and how upset it had made me. To be honest, the word upset is an under statement. I was enraged. Fat shaming others in front of fat people, is like slagging off blind people in front of other blind people, or … Continue reading Responding to Fat Shamers… What’s The Point of Preaching to the Choir?
Last night I came across a post on Instagram which highlighted the glamorisation of the #selfcaresunday hashtag. It really made me think about the way we talk about self care, and I realised that I haven’t been very forthcoming when it comes to talking about the daily struggles I faced during my depression. So in the interest of breaking down the stigma around mental illness, … Continue reading 20 Things That Are Hard AF When You’ve Got Depression.
So your fat, single, and ready for a change? But how do you deal with the whole weight thing on online dating sites? Even if you’re body positive, it can be tricky. Trust me I know, I’ve been there. This seems to be a challenge that many fat girls face. I’ve had lots of followers get in touch in recent times, asking for advice on … Continue reading 5 Tips for Online Dating for Plus Size Girls
Following bopo accounts on Instagram is crucial to developing self love and body positivity. Why? Well considering the fact that these days most of us spend more time on our phones than off them, it’s no wonder that the messages we receive through our social media have an immeasurable impact on how we think and feel. When we make the decision to start working hard … Continue reading My Five Favourite Self Love Accounts
It’s that time of year again, when our social media becomes saturated by Bikini Body workouts, meal plans and ‘thinspiration’. I’m sure you’ve already guessed that it’s not something that I enjoy. Far from it. But given how pervasive the Bikini Body pressure is in society, I have to face facts and accept the reality of the world I live in. Right? Wrong. I refuse … Continue reading The Bikini Body Bullshit
This time last year I had just recently embarked on the most important mission of my life; to fall in love with myself. Like most people, I suppose, the idea of self love was completely alien to me back then, and I made all kinds of crazy assumptions about the concept. Since then though, I’ve come to understand self love for what it really is, … Continue reading Five Things I’ve Learned About Self Love