Big Dick Energy and Self Love

Big Dick Energy is the latest craze hitting the internet, but it’s far from just being another online fad. The urban dictionary defines BDE as confidence without cockiness. This type of confidence is never misplaced and it can’t be faked. Amazingly, the Urban Dictionary says;

“It’s the sexual equivalent for writing a check for $10k knowing you got it in the bank account”. 

Worried that it’s going to be tricky for you to have BDE without an actual dick? Don’t. BDE isn’t dependent on a penis. Women can have just as much BDE as any man!

Great examples of women who exude Big Dick Energy include:

  1. Rihanna
  2. Queen Bey
  3. Meryl Streep
  4. Michelle Obama
  5. Serena Williams

Self Love and Big Dick Energy

If you want to exude Big Dick Energy, I’m afraid it’s something that can’t be faked. I guess it’s something that comes with time, age, experience, failures, successes, and growth.

One of the things that’s very clear to me is that women with Big Dick Energy love themselves. Self love is the cornerstone of that energy. They know exactly who they are, they don’t try to be anything else, they practice self care and they honor themselves with quiet, considerate, everlasting appreciation.

BDE isn’t loud or shouty. It’s not about screaming from the rooftops about how awesome you are, or about arrogance or superiority. It’s quiet, calm, poised. Women with BDE don’t put themselves down and they don’t self deprecate. They don’t ever undervalue themselves or their abilities. And they do not settle for anything less than they deserve.

Women with BDE are humble and have humility. They recognize and honor their power. Equally, they recognize and honor the power of others too. They value personal growth and push themselves out of their comfort zones. They choose to do the things that frighten them. They see the power that comes in vulnerability.

These women support each other. They use their power to lift others up. They don’t compete, simply because they don’t feel the need to prove themselves to anyone. They allow their worth to speak for itself. They are proactive, not reactive, and they aren’t impulsive. They think carefully, strategically, and focus on the long game, always keeping in mind the bigger picture.

A woman with Big Dick Energy is a force to be reckoned with. She will not accept any less than she deserves, and she won’t tolerate people in her life who don’t value her as highly as she does.

She doesn’t apologize for who she is, but she won’t let her pride stop her from apologizing when she’s in the wrong.

She sees the beauty in every part of her, but she isn’t vain.

She believes in her power, but doesn’t use it to overshadow the power of others.

She feels beautiful and powerful in the skin she’s in, and she tries to help others to feel this way too.



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